In China, why do some men, when they are sick and down and out, find that their girlfriends not only don't feel sorry for them but instead look impatient? Because in many relationships, love and value are actually linked together. When your career is successful, your mood is stable, and you can solve problems, the other person enjoys your value; but when you are sick, unemployed, or at a low point, needing others to care for and support you, the relationship enters another kind of test. Some people choose to stay by your side because they love the complete you; others choose to distance themselves because they are used to receiving but are not ready to give. The cruelest part of a low point is not losing wealth, but seeing clearly who loves you and who loves the value you have.