The greatest drain in life is not failure, but trying to control everything. There are always some things beyond your plans, and some results don't meet your expectations. Accepting uncertainty doesn't mean giving up on effort; accepting reality doesn't mean losing hope. Do your best, then leave the results to time. Many experiences you once couldn't accept will eventually become part of who you are. Don't cling to why things happen, but think about what they are teaching you. No matter what happens, it has already happened. Look forward, the answers are always on the way.