Regarding choosing a partner, many people think they are choosing someone they like, but in fact they are choosing based on their needs. When short on money, they value conditions; when lacking a sense of security, they crave dependence; when missing emotional value, they are easily moved. Only when you have your own career, abilities, and a complete inner self, and no longer need others to fill the gaps in your life, can you truly choose someone you like. Otherwise, most people end up choosing simply the most suitable person.