In China, women can strive or choose not to strive, and often have a backup plan; men, on the other hand, usually do not. From the moment they reach adulthood, studying, working, buying a house, getting married, supporting a family—each step seems to remind him that he must keep moving forward. Many times, it's not that he's tired, but that he can't stop; it's not that he has no grievances, but that he doesn't know who to tell. He is used to bearing the pressure himself, digesting his emotions alone, and shouldering responsibilities on his shoulders. When he finally brings home the hard-earned money, others often only see the result, and few know how much pressure and hardship he endured to achieve it.