Women are naturally inclined to be conquered.

You show her warmth and care, provide her with food and clothing, and keep her emotions high,
she in turn labels you a "bootlicker"—because you haven't conquered her, only served her.
A bootlicker can hardly get close, and ending up as a big fool is the standard outcome.
Mentally, you make her doubt herself; physically, you exhaust her;
your pockets are empty, but you dare to walk around arrogantly—no money, only a life.
She instead thinks: this is true masculinity, this is real conquest.
Women like this, their endings are always tragic.