Cat Brother tells you how anxiety gets sold out! !

Cat Brother has a friend—he’s a regular office worker.
His monthly salary is over 3,000 RMB, plus extra benefits and subsidies, so he can get around 5,000 RMB a month.
He even can’t bear to order too expensive food when he eats; he’s careful and calculated.
He saved money for many years—Cat Brother knows it.
This time he’s planning to go to Antarctica, with a budget of 100k.
One day he told Cat Brother about it, and Cat Brother asked him:
“Have you always liked Antarctica like this?”
He said: “Not really.”
“It’s just that someone told me. If you never go to Antarctica in your life, your life is incomplete.”
In short, what he means is: if my friend doesn’t go, his life can’t unfold, his horizons can’t expand—while if he goes, it somehow feels like he’ll be on a higher level, like a master.
(As if going would open the Ren and Du meridians 🤣)
In that moment,
Cat Brother suddenly felt like he didn’t know what to say, because he also didn’t want to hurt his pride.
After that, Cat Brother didn’t say anything. He just felt that it seems like a lot of people are selling things now.
Either they’re selling travel, or they’re selling anxiety.
For example these:
“You must go to Tibet once in your life.”
“Your life must include seeing the Northern Lights once.”
“Your life must jump once with a parachute.”
“Your life must take a once-in-a-lifetime around-the-world trip.”
It’s like if you don’t complete these, then your life is a waste 🤣
But Cat Brother has a question:
Who exactly decided that other people’s favorite things must also become your dreams?
If you truly love Antarctica,
spending 100k—Cat Brother thinks it’s worth it, way worth it.
But if it’s only because you’re afraid you’ll regret it later, afraid you can’t open the Ren and Du meridians 🤣
Afraid people will say your life is incomplete—
then this 100k
Cat Brother thinks you don’t buy happiness.
You buy anxiety that someone else manufactures.
So actually Cat Brother has always felt that
there isn’t any standard answer to life.
Some people think seeing the Northern Lights is what makes it complete.
Some people think that a family can just sit down and eat a simple meal—it’s already happiness.
For example, Cat Brother likes to have a few more relationships; and even if he gets heartbroken a few times, Cat Brother still feels it’s complete 🤣
So a complete life
shouldn’t be told to you by other people.
It should be something you walk through and live out yourself.
If right now you have 100k RMB,
would you go to fulfill a dream someone told you that if you don’t, your life is incomplete—like going to Antarctica, or seeing the Northern Lights?
Would you go?
Or would you keep this money to improve your current life?