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Many people in their 20s and 30s choose not to have children because they enjoy freedom, or because they are DINKs
But what you may not have considered is that the decision is truly tested in your 40s, 50s, and 60s, or after your parents and loved ones begin leaving one by one…
When you’re young, the difference between having children and not having them isn’t that obvious; in fact, having no children can feel incredibly liberating, and you may even be more carefree..
People without children can travel whenever they want, sleep until whenever they want, play games, drink, and go shopping on we

What is frightening for many ordinary families is not having no money, but spending big money to support their children—pouring tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands into them every year—only to have the whole family give everything they have and ultimately ruin the child….
I’ve seen far too many families like this.
They’re reluctant to eat well or buy decent clothes for themselves, scrimping and saving, but they never hesitate when signing their children up for classes.
English, math, piano, drawing—whatever other children have, their own child must have too.
They pour tens of thous

In my second year of high school, I foolishly played with two exposed wires in the classroom and touched them together. Suddenly, there was a loud bang and a flash of light, and the entire teaching building lost power. I immediately had a bad feeling.
The school electrician found out and immediately took me to the principal’s office. I thought I was done for and was terrified. Unexpectedly, the first thing my homeroom teacher said when he arrived was something I remembered for many years…
It was during evening self-study.
I went to the back of the classroom to chat with a classmate and saw two

She said gently, “Honey, I’ll be at your place soon. I bought your mom the things she likes to eat. See if there’s anything else she needs? Mm-hmm, okay.”
As soon as she hung up, she immediately called another man.
“Hello, I’ll be at their place soon. Do you think it’ll work this time?” “Ah, okay, I’ll give you a good X when I get back, all right? Haven’t you had enough of your X? Okay, okay, I’m almost there.”
Damn, reality is even more entertaining than jokes and novels😂
The above was something Cat Bro witnessed many years ago when he drove for a ride-hailing service in his spare time. The

The most disgraceful thing my dad did as a child was stuff cow dung into fruit candy wrappers, stand at the village entrance, and hand them out to everyone he saw
Adults and children alike—everyone got one
He also stole peaches, blew up manure pits, raided beehives, and followed the family dog into the river to swim, nearly drowning himself
He scored 14 points on a test, then secretly changed it to 74.
After thinking it over, he may have felt that 74 didn't reflect his ability, so he changed it to 94.
Later, my grandpa ran into the teacher on his way home
That day, my dad was chased for two li

A minute ago, I thought the girl in the back seat would make a perfect wife
She was going to meet her boyfriend’s parents and had even bought his future mother-in-law some of her favorite food
A minute later, she called another man, and I took back what I had just thought
Cat Bro once spent some time driving for a ride-hailing service and picked up an incredibly beautiful girl
After getting in, she made two phone calls
On the first call, she said in an especially gentle voice:
“Darling, I’m almost at your place. I bought your mother some of her favorite food. See if there’s anythin

I remember, right after I had finished the college entrance exam, I went downstairs to get my phone repaired, and the owner pointed at the door and threatened me: “If you don’t leave now, I’ll make you regret it.”
I was indeed a little scared at the time. So I didn’t argue with him and only replied: “Fine, then I’ll find someone else to talk to you.”
More than a month later, I walked into that shop again. The owner said: “You’re going this far over 50 yuan? Are you trying to ruin me??”
The owner’s emotions flared up the moment he saw me…
It all started with that water-damaged phone
My phone ha

My wife once asked me to introduce a partner to her best friend, and told me very seriously: Her 32-year-old best friend was only worthy of the man with the best conditions in our workplace!
Even at the time, I felt that this might eventually end badly! Looking back a few years later, my concerns really did come true..
At the time, I found 3 single male colleagues
After looking them over, she said only:
“Only A is barely good enough for her.”
My wife’s best friend really did have decent qualifications
She was 32, 173 cm tall, an only child, had graduated from a second-tier university, worked a

A colleague bought a mattress online, and was stunned the moment they opened the package
A live weasel suddenly sprang out from inside😱
The colleague immediately contacted the seller to demand a return, saying:
“Why is there a weasel inside your mattress?”
They thought the seller would apologize, refund them, and accept the return
Unexpectedly, to prove that the weasel had not gotten inside during packing but had crawled in by itself during shipping, the seller actually went to great lengths to contact the local forestry department
In the end, they really managed to obtain a certificate:
The

A true talent is often not what a child likes at first, but what they still can’t bear to give up after learning it…
This is because a child’s short-lived enthusiasm may not be a bad thing at all
What parents really need to pay attention to is something else..
Young children are curious about everything
Today they want to draw, tomorrow they want to play the piano, and the day after they want to play soccer
Many parents see their child give up and immediately think:
“This child has no patience and can’t stick with anything.”
But look at it from another angle: have you ever thought that trying

Whether a child grows up easygoing or sensitive can actually be seen from the parents’ first words when the child knocks over a plate of fruit..
Cat哥 used to think that children who are sunny and confident were simply born with good temperaments. But after observing our neighbors’ family for several years, I realized it wasn’t at all what I had imagined…
Every day after school, he would start shouting from far away:
“Mom! There were chicken legs in the cafeteria today!”
The first thing his mom said when she opened the door was: “Did you eat an extra one?”
The child is now in junior high, smili

At a certain age, the first thing to change may not be your body, but the fact that you start experiencing farewells and losses more and more frequently
Your parents grow old, your elders pass away, and there are fewer familiar elders each year. Only later did I gradually understand why so many older people care so much about “the next generation,” “having grandchildren,” and the saying “Of the three forms of unfilial conduct, having no descendants is the greatest”
What they are truly afraid of is not simply having no one to care for them in old age, nor merely the so-called continuation of th

Checking in for lunch—Cat Bro-style pan-fried dumplings are back on the menu🎉
Pan-fried dumplings again today🥟Cat Bro feels his pan-fried dumpling skills have reached perfection🤣
Crispy on the outside and tender inside—let's dig in!
What did everyone have for lunch today?

Cat Bro has never seen a divorce this impossible to talk someone out of, bar none
There was no cheating, no domestic violence, no war between the wife and her in-laws, and both of them were doing fairly well
In the end, what nearly drove their marriage to the breaking point was actually a bedroom door left open…
My cousin and his wife met because I introduced them, and both sides knew each other well
My cousin works for a company and earns a decent income in their small city; his wife works in the public sector, with a lower but stable income. Both sets of parents are decent people, and neithe

Cat Bro once spent half a year trying to fix a strange noise in his new car, nearly driving himself to a nervous breakdown. Even the 4S shop couldn’t figure it out, until a roadside mechanic with bleached hair listened for two minutes and left me completely speechless…
Not long after I bought the new car, it started making a mysterious “clang clang clang” noise every time I drove
The most ridiculous part was that I took it to the 4S shop several times, but they simply couldn’t find anything wrong—and even gave me a free maintenance service
And this problem was especially supernatural:
It barel

I used to think that the more of the world a person saw, the better.
But one day, my girlfriend, who flew all over the world, came back and told me:
“I slept with someone else.”
We met during her junior year of college.
I was her first boyfriend and the first person she had sex with.
Back then, she was a typical top student. She had hardly dated throughout her years of schooling, lived a simple life, and was not exposed to complicated people.
Later, after graduation, she was very lucky. She was soon entrusted with important responsibilities at her company and began flying all over the world.
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In 2010, I earned about 1,500 yuan a month
One day at work, I found a full 40k yuan in cash in the gas station restroom
I was just over 20 years old at the time
I couldn't have earned that much in two years without eating or drinking!😱
I opened the bag and took a look—four neat bundles of cash were inside
It would be a lie to say I felt nothing
But I didn't think too much about it and took the bag to find the station manager
The station manager didn't even open it; he went straight to check the surveillance footage
We quickly found the owner
She was a middle-aged woman who had arrived by bus