Some people, due to long-term negation, neglect, and unstable support in their childhood experiences, can easily develop a contradictory psychological structure: they internally always believe they "should not be ordinary," but in reality, taking action is extremely difficult. As a result, on one hand, they become overly optimistic about the future and neglect accumulation; on the other hand, because they are too eager to prove themselves, they fall into a cycle of high expectations and low action. In many cases, what truly holds a person back is not their ability, but an excessively high psychological friction cost—while others can start with just 20% of their energy, such a person might first need to expend 80% of their energy battling their own anxiety, fear, and self-doubt. Over time, this creates a life experience of "obviously feeling that I'm not bad, yet never being able to build results."