Admiring the strong is not inherently a problem; it is a natural mechanism for human learning and adaptation. The real issue is when some people's admiration for the strong shifts from "learning from the strong" to "using the strong to negate themselves." This pattern is sometimes related to upbringing—if a person was only recognized when they were excellent, sensible, or strong from a young age, they may form a deep-seated belief that "only the strong deserve to be loved." As a result, when faced with outstanding individuals, instead of gaining motivation, they feel shame and self-doubt. What truly needs correction is not stopping the appreciation of the strong, but ceasing to base one's self-worth on comparisons of strength with others.

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