Dad turns his life around, the whole family benefits.

Mom turns her life around, the whole family remains single.
When a man makes something of himself, the whole family can enjoy a good life.
When a woman lives a vibrant life, the family might just fall apart.
Having the same amount of money:
The way men and women view money is worlds apart; many women save money to have the confidence to leave at any moment.
Men earn money to shoulder the responsibility of supporting the family, ensuring their wife and children eat well and sleep soundly.
They feel more secure inside.