What is a good marriage?

A good marriage is not about marrying a more beautiful wife, nor about marrying a wealthier husband, but about meeting someone with emotional stability.
You need to understand that life is about dealing with pots, bowls, and utensils; after living together for a long time, couples inevitably have conflicts.
But what do you do when conflicts happen?
Endure it, because over time, you might get sick; vent your feelings, because over time, he might get sick; argue with each other, because over time, the home might fall apart.

An unhappy marriage is the real cause of a person's illness.
Want to leave but can't; want to live well but can't; long-term mental exhaustion, ongoing frustration, even the best person will eventually develop health problems.

Therefore, a good marriage involves having a partner with emotional stability.
A partner with emotional stability is not someone who ignores you during arguments or just tries to comfort you,
but someone whose presence can also make your emotions stabilize.
When you drive the wrong way, your partner doesn't complain but tells you, "Just in time, we can go see some scenery we've never seen before."
When you accidentally break a bowl, your partner doesn't criticize but says, "Just as well, I wasn't using this bowl comfortably; I was just about to replace it."