The place where a person usually spends the most money is often not their consumption habits, but their value hierarchy. Where money flows, that is where they value most in their heart. Many people say they value health but are reluctant to get a check-up; say they value family but are unwilling to spend time and money to accompany them; say they value growth but are reluctant to buy books and learn. So, to understand a person, you don't need to listen to what they say first. Look at where their time flows, look at where their money flows, and you can basically see their true priorities.