Many people who have managed to survive long-term in highly volatile markets gradually form a personality structure of “low emotional reactivity.” Because the market every day amplifies interests, desires, fears, and human nature, if someone is emotionally unstable, relies on feedback from others, and is afraid of being alone, then it’s actually very difficult for them to stay in it long-term. So many people eventually become restrained, rational, prefer solitude, and are wary of being drained. But what truly makes it hard for this kind of person to enter relationships isn’t that they are “cold”—it’s that they find it increasingly difficult to be moved by superficial things. Most of the emotional value that ordinary relationships provide—companionship, admiration, sweet talk, short-term excitement—they’ve already seen too many “emotional bubbles” in the market, so they naturally become desensitized to these things. Many relationship problems are not because “they don’t love enough,” but because both sides fundamentally aren’t in the same mental/spiritual world.