Many people who can achieve "success" do not like to complain.

This is not because they are stronger, more mature, or afraid of bothering others.
Instead, they learned a lesson early in life: expressing pain does not bring support.
When they encounter problems alone, their father does not step in to help, nor does he tell them "It's not your fault."
Their mother also does not comfort their emotions or allow them to be vulnerable.
As a result, their brain gradually forms a fundamental judgment: vulnerability is ineffective, emotions cannot solve problems, and in the end, they can only rely on themselves.
Therefore, later in life, they naturally skip the step of "seeking help."