When you see others pointing out your flaws, you become angry and emotional. That shows you're still far from enlightenment. You need to understand that when others criticize you, they are giving you information, and what you care about is how to win the argument. Just like how your product users enthusiastically provide bug feedback, but you scold them instead. Many people's growth stalls not because no one reminds them, but because each reminder is intercepted by their emotional defense system.