Some people say, find a partner who buys grilled sausages at scenic spots, drinks water on the hillside, buys sugarcane at the mountain top, or eats meals with servers. The essence of this is that it reflects a relaxed attitude towards life. Because in long-term relationships, what truly consumes people are not big events, but countless small moments like these. It's not about screening for money, but about screening for the ability to be willing to pay for feelings. Many people think maturity is extreme rationality. In fact, in a good intimate relationship, the most precious thing is: "Forget it, just buy it." "Since you're here anyway." "Happiness is the most important." This is actually a very high-level sense of relaxation.