What does it mean for women to resist their downward temptations?

It's not about telling you to find someone with worse conditions than you.
But those who tell you: "Women don't need to work so hard," "Marrying well is more important than working hard," "Just be responsible for being pretty," "Women are too strong and no one likes that," "Just find a man who can support you."
The most frightening part of these words is not that they make women rely on men.
It's that they gradually take away a person's: judgment, survival skills, financial ability, mental independence, and perception of the world.
In the end, they turn a woman's life into a kind of "competition for a position."
When young, competing with appearance; as age increases, starting to fear aging, losing value, and being replaced.
So she becomes more anxious, more insecure, and more eager to control relationships.
Because when a person's value is long-term based on "being chosen," she finds it hard to truly own her life.
Don't sell your life’s initiative at a low price to a seemingly easy life narrative.
True growth upward is not dependent on anyone.
It's: while still young and full of vitality, continue to grow, continue to understand the world, and continue to build your own abilities and spirit.