Many people think that being rejected over a long period is just "hearing a few unpleasant words," but the truly frightening part is: language can slowly change the way a person views themselves. Someone who always criticizes you may not actually be better than you; they are just alleviating their own insecurity and inferiority by belittling you. Over time, you will start to doubt yourself, become increasingly afraid to express yourself, hesitant to try, and even gradually live according to the other's definition. A truly healthy relationship does not make you feel more oppressed or more cautious. Genuine love and care should give you strength when you're vulnerable, help you regain your footing when you doubt yourself, rather than constantly undermining your self-worth. Whether someone loves you is not about whether they say they are "doing it for your good," but whether, after being with them, you become more confident and more stable.