To help children improve and grow, parents must remember:

1. Don't constantly belittle your children (hurt their self-esteem);
2. Don't rely on scare tactics for discipline (create fear);
3. Don't exchange behavior for material rewards (twist motivation);
4. Don't force children to give verbal promises (easy to learn to be perfunctory);
5. Don't turn supervision into control (weaken autonomy);
6. Don't nag repeatedly (trigger rebellion);
7. Don't demand immediate obedience (ignore emotional buffering);
8. Don't indulge without limits (hinder independence);
9. Don't change rules arbitrarily (destroy sense of security);
10. Don't always impose age-inappropriate demands (damage self-worth).
Good education is not about suppression and control, but about boundaries; through respect and stability, children gradually build a sense of security, confidence, and independent personality.