The most terrifying thing in a family has never been poverty, nor arguments, but people with shallow cognition who hold the highest authority.

They do not believe in understanding and respect, but in control and obedience.
They see only winning and losing, high and low, who can suppress whom.
Such people are often stubborn, narrow-minded, stuck in the past in their understanding, but unwilling to learn and reflect.
They always think they are right, suppress reason with emotions, and cover ignorance with dominance.
They take prejudice as experience, control as discipline, and suppression as "for your own good."
The true disaster in a family is not lack of money, but living long-term in an environment of low cognition and high control.
Because such an environment is most likely to destroy a person's confidence, desire to express, and vitality.