The deaf cannot hear the sound of cannons, the blind cannot see the lights shining, but the crippled say: the cannons are still loud, the lights are still bright, it's just that the road is uneven. Some people like chili peppers because they are spicy enough; some dislike chili peppers because they are too spicy. Some get married for happiness; some get divorced also for happiness. The same cup of tea, some taste bitterness; some taste a sweet aftertaste. The same road, some are full of joy; some struggle step by step. In this world, many things have no absolute right or wrong, only their own position and experience. Don't measure others with your own ruler, and don't trap yourself in others' standards. People are different, hearts are different. Being able to understand others is cultivation; being able to stay true to yourself is clarity.