You clearly haven't wronged anyone, yet you always feel some people's inexplicable hostility. Many times, the malice between people isn't because you've done something wrong, but because you've done something right. If you live too well, you'll be envied; if you're too capable, you'll be rejected; if you're cheerful, you'll be met with dissatisfaction; if you look good and dress well, you'll be secretly compared; even if you're unwilling to go along with the crowd, that can become a reason for others to dislike you. Because some people can't make themselves better, they can only hope you live worse to gain a brief internal balance. So, don't be too obsessed with making everyone like you. How others see you doesn't matter. Many compliments may not be sincere, but some jealousy and slander precisely indicate that you possess qualities others don't have.

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