Many common problems in Chinese families often do not stem solely from individual personalities, but from:

First, long-term economic pressure, which often originates from the competition and survival stress built into social structural design;
Second, the lack of emotional regulation skills, which is frequently a result of long-term ideological and cultural environment shaping;
Third, a lack of control and boundary awareness, fundamentally often arising from feelings of insecurity formed under long-term resource scarcity;
Fourth, issues with communication styles are related to the education system's long emphasis on obedience, correct answers, and authority;
Fifth, external pressures are excessive because families bear too many responsibilities that should be shared by social systems;
Sixth, mutual dependence and mutual consumption among family members are also often related to insufficient social welfare and personal support systems.
Many problems in Chinese families are the result of the combined effects of long-term social structure, cultural environment, and institutional pressures. Specific individuals still tend to pass on this distortion to varying degrees.