The essence of perfectionism is not pursuing excellence, but being unable to distinguish clearly.


Mistaking details for priorities, mistaking the process for the main point, spending a lot of energy on those "seemingly hard-working" areas, yet never daring to face the true core issues.
Because the real main contradiction is often accompanied by risks, uncertainties, failures, and evaluations;
while details are safe, they create an illusion of "I've already taken it seriously."
So, the true importance of growth is not to make every task flawless, but to constantly identify the primary and secondary contradictions,
judge the most core things at each stage, learn to make choices, learn to accept flaws, and learn to move forward with mistakes.
When you start to understand: complete first, then optimize; push forward first, then correct; mistakes are okay, too.
Only then will you gradually become desensitized to the idea of "perfection is a must."
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