As an adult, which is more likely to make your parents angry: secretly paying off a 20-year mortgage, or spending 200 yuan on a game?

If you have to choose a disastrous major in college, and tomorrow you want to adopt a pet, which one makes them more anxious?
Is your work stress so overwhelming that you can barely handle it, or are you just surviving on takeout for a whole week?
Which one is more serious?
But in reality, those who love you the most often just can't grasp the true "point."
(Perhaps the "point" they grasp best is that they are afraid to get involved in high-cost matters but still want to participate in your life.)