True psychological healing is not about convincing someone "you are good," nor is it about analyzing and correcting problems, but about providing a stable, genuine, non-judgmental experience of being "seen." When someone who has been in a state of neglect, misunderstanding, or chaotic relationships for a long time encounters someone who can respond accurately and gently for the first time, their perception of themselves will begin to loosen and rebuild. Because how we see ourselves largely comes from how others perceive us, and when external feedback becomes clear, kind, and consistent for the first time, a person may gradually shift from "self-denial" to "reinterpreting themselves."