Brothers, remember this: take it slow, yoga, weight loss, travel, concerts, stanning, playing mahjong, a male bestie, Little Red Book, freelance, bestie, emotional value, attitude, sense of ceremony, understands me, won’t cook, bad temper, an independent woman, the beauty industry, preparing for civil service exams, outdoor activities, hiking, mountain climbing, cycling, a streamer, fitness, business KTV, divorced with kids, no sense of security