Chinese people’s "intelligence" is all used for dialectics.

You say, why do vegetables need so much pesticide?
He says, if you don’t spray pesticides, can you buy cheap vegetables?
You say, why has the speed of the electric meter increased?
He says, electricity prices haven't increased in thirty years, don’t you know?
You say, children need love and support the most, not control?
He says, your child wants to commit suicide, and you don’t control them either?
You say, how come your car is blocking the road?
He says, why are you shouting at me? Does shouting make you right?
You say, why is no one solving the problems here?
He says, you think this place is bad, why are you still staying here?
You say, the most important thing in life is how to find yourself.
He says, don’t you consider your parents? Don’t you enter society?
You say, your house’s soundproofing is too poor?
He says, can you afford a better one?
You say, this company makes us work overtime every day, it’s too exhausting.
He says, everyone else can work overtime, why can’t you?
You say, Mom, this vegetable doesn’t taste very good either?
He says, when I was a kid, I couldn’t even eat this vegetable, be content.
You keep bringing up problems... and he’ll curse at you...
Actually, this phenomenon is a typical communication "defense mechanism": they turn the "right or wrong" issue into "whether you have the qualification to speak about the problem,"
suppress specific issues with a "bigger background," replace normal discussion with extreme examples, and turn emotional issues into attitude issues.
The motivation behind this way of communication is often not "more advanced logic," but: to avoid taking responsibility, to maintain a sense of self-righteousness, to protect oneself from feelings of powerlessness in reality, or a long-term learned habit of "winning debates." In other words, they are not truly "thinking about the problem," but defending their stance.