Being a standout among the crowd is not something that can be cultivated overnight, but rather a result of one's innate talent, genetics, and the match with the era. Whether a person can succeed largely depends on the era they are born into and the demands of that time. The same abilities, when placed at different points in history, can either be "talent" or "disaster." So-called destiny is whether a person and the era are aligned in the right channel. Truly valuable effort is not about forcing oneself to change, but about understanding oneself, accepting oneself, and growing in a suitable direction. Just like a sheep cannot be trained to grow into a giraffe; trying to reach the treetops will only cause pain. It’s better to peacefully graze and live securely. Many educational misconceptions lie in the obsession with transforming children into "people of high stature," while ignoring that everyone has a different structure. Instead of insisting on becoming a standout among the crowd, it’s better to find a position that matches oneself and live steadily. That is more realistic.