Children will constantly develop needs as they grow, and the way these needs are responded to will influence their understanding of the rules of the world. If needs are frequently recognized and reasonably addressed, along with clear boundaries and explanations, children are more likely to develop the understanding that "rules are stable and understandable, and needs can be gradually fulfilled through legitimate means"; conversely, if they are consistently met with rejection or lack of explanation over a long period, they may find it harder to understand the meaning of restrictions. The key to material provision is not how much is given, but whether clear rules, consistent responses, and alternative pathways are provided at the same time, allowing children to learn to understand boundaries and delayed gratification while feeling loved.

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