Some people like eating chili peppers because they are spicy; others dislike eating chili peppers for the same reason. Nothing can satisfy everyone. Those who like you think your fart smells good; those who dislike you find your breathing wrong. People can't be judged simply as good or bad, right or wrong. The messy little flaws, small temperaments, stubbornness, and countless traits make up your magnetic field. People who like certain qualities of yours will actively get close and appreciate them; those who reject certain traits will automatically stay away. So just confidently be yourself—don't change, don't pretend, don't hurt yourself. Think of yourself as a chili pepper, living out your own flavor, expressing your boldness. Life is only thirty thousand days; you must live it to the fullest.