A family that wants to be wealthy must adhere to these 12 points. If they do, even if not rich, they will prosper:

1. Don't let outsiders borrow luck from your family. Stay away from people who speak poorly of your husband or wife. This is provoking discord between you two. Marital cracks are the beginning of bad luck.
2. Men should get regular haircuts; women should learn to dress up. This is the spirit and vitality of a family.
3. The family should have financial energy. Men should avoid extramarital affairs; women should not be third parties.
4. Don't grab your partner's face; both men and women are equal. This is the face of the family.
5. It's normal for couples to have conflicts. Don't always bring up divorce. Repeating it may lead to real separation, because words have energy.
6. When arguing, don't disturb your parents. This can turn a family conflict into a conflict involving three families.
7. Control your emotions. Don't bring outside frustrations home, as it will affect the atmosphere of the family.
8. Couples must share finances. If they don't, their hearts won't be united. If both earn and spend separately, with different minds, the family can't thrive.
9. Women should not excessively care for the natal family; men should not overly help their brothers. Overhelping siblings can harm your small family, as they may not appreciate your kindness and may cause harm.
10. Raising children is not solely one person's responsibility. Men should not say "I will raise the children myself." Women should not say "I am giving birth for you." Children are both parties' responsibility. Do not let any parent lack love from either side. Only when spouses walk forward together can children grow up firmly, healthily, safely, and happily.
11. Don't spend money extravagantly. Whether you are poor or rich, earning money is a skill; spending and saving money are true abilities.
12. Couples must learn to speak kindly. Words are the gate of fortune or misfortune. Harsh words bring bad luck; kind words bring good luck. Speech is powerful.

Ultimately, the blessing of a family does not depend on how much you seek, but on what you let go of—let go of suspicion, harsh words, external disturbances, and burdens in your heart. True composure is not about holding tightly but about knowing when to loosen your grip. When you understand what can be let go of, you will see clearly what must be protected.