Handle a person's most vicious moves:

1. Communication
1. Don't tell your fren the secret, because good friends have good friends.
2. Money, not borrowed, cars, not borrowed.
3. No matter who you are in front of, as long as you don't owe him, there is no need to be submissive.
4. Try to restrain your desire to refute and learn to praise or shut up.
5. No matter who has something, as long as they don't notify you, then pretend not to know, and don't ask afterwards.

2. Dealing with the world
1. No one takes the initiative to contact you, which means that you have no value in other eyes. Without exchange value, it is difficult to be a true fren.
2. Regardless of any relationship, as long as the other party does things without considering your feelings and interests, you should stop loss in time.
3. If you don't want to talk to someone and you don't want to offend him, don't reply to messages right away.
4. The more domineering and confident you are, the more people will respect you, and the more polite and kind you are, the more they will take you seriously.
5. Show your strength and intelligence to those who have a stakehold, and show your politeness to those who don't.

3. Human nature
1. The greatest evil of human nature: hate you, laugh at you, hate you for being poor, and fear that you are rich.
2. Don't overestimate human nature, whoever overestimates human nature will die without a place to be buried. Remember: tigers are still close, acquaintances are not close.
3. What can really kill us is the acquaintances around us, only acquaintances know that your belly is fine, and they will fix you to death.
4. When an acquaintance knows your secrets, he will not defend your secrets, but will ruin your affairs everywhere and make you ruined.

4. Making a living
1. If your parents are weak, you will learn to do business and change your fate.
2. If your parents are strong, you will have your back against the towering tree and become an official.
3. If your clan is strong, you will use your family fame to develop locally.
4. The family is poor, and the only way out is to go away to find opportunities. The mother is weak and the merchant is strong, and the father is strong as a waiter; the family is prosperous and stays in his hometown, and the family is poor and goes to another country.
5. Anyone's confidence comes from economic strength, and money can cure all inferiority.

5. Self-discipline
1. Do only three things: study, make money, and exercise.
2. Read only three types of books: history, business, and marketing.
3. Only pay three kinds of people: ability, ideas, and execution.
4. I believe in only three kinds of people: those who talk to me when I am uncomfortable, those who help me when I am down, and those who do not come to me when I am at my peak.
5. There are only three kinds of videos: those that can improve my cognition, those that allow me to learn knowledge, and those that I can use immediately. #slerf