Whether men and women can have an improper relationship basically depends on the woman. Those who sneak around, cheat, or have an affair—so long as the woman doesn’t agree, doesn’t give in, and doesn’t implicitly accept it, then no matter how the man pesters or pursues, it’s futile.

Don’t! Stop talking about how “men are too bad,” “men have thick skin,” or “men aren’t proper.” In fact, in most improper relationships between men and women, the woman’s consent is required for anything to happen. As long as the woman clearly says no, if the man dares to take advantage of it, push further, and act recklessly, then it becomes illegal—and he has to behave and go in to do prison labor.

The truth:
Many affairs aren’t “caused by seduction”—they’re tacitly permitted.
It’s not that the man is that clever; it’s that the woman isn’t really willing to let it go.