You’ll understand as you live life

1. Don’t argue with anyone
2. Don’t confide in anyone
3. Don’t make things hard on yourself
4. Don’t bicker with your family
5. Don’t push yourself too hard
6. Refuse to drain yourself with inner turmoil
7. When you can’t communicate, then give up trying
8. When nobody understands you, as long as you can understand yourself, that’s enough
9. If it’s a small matter you don’t need to dwell on, let it go
10. When nobody cares, learn to comfort yourself
11. If it’s beyond your ability, don’t force it
12. Whether it’s relatives or friends—if you get along, then get along; if not, then forget it