When he was eighteen, he told me to be brave and love—love you for ten thousand years!

In his twenties, he told me that people need dreams; what’s the difference between having no dreams and being salted fish?
Now he’s almost forty, and he tells me to let go of winning and losing. Kicking a ball is just kicking a ball. Dying isn’t scary—living is what gives life meaning. Let go of pressure. Life is a game—success or failure, both are the meaning of your life. Different experiences lead to different insights.