Top-level thinking for women in handling matters

1. No matter who you're dealing with, as long as you don't owe them anything, there's no need to be timid
2. Suppress your urge to argue; if you can't praise, keep your mouth shut
3. Don't easily tell secrets to your best friend, because your best friend also has a best friend
4. No matter what happens in someone else's family, if you haven't been notified, pretend you don't know, and don't ask afterward, or everyone will feel awkward
5. Don't lend money out; if you do, be sure to get it back
6. If no one takes the initiative to contact you, it means you have no value in their eyes, and you don't need to force it
7. No matter the relationship, if the other party never considers your feelings, stop the loss in time
8. If you don't want to chat with someone but don't want to offend them, reply late
9. To those related to your interests, show your strength and ability; to those unrelated, show your politeness
10. The more capable you are, the more respect you get; being too easygoing will only make people pick on the weak