Social Advice for Those Who Are Too Trusting

1. Don't casually reveal your family background.
2. Secret matters: known only to heaven, earth, and yourself.
3. Girls must be wary of people who suddenly act nice to you, especially older men.
4. No matter how good your relationship is, don't live next door to relatives.
5. If a job interview asks whether you have a boyfriend, don't take the job.
6. When out in public, women should not hang their underwear in obvious places.
7. If someone wants something of yours and you don't want to give it, don't timidly refuse—ask them, "What are you going to trade me for it?" This is called attacking to defend.
8. Watch your mouth: don't talk about your goals, your money, your family matters, or your mistakes. Keep these four secrets to avoid trouble and stay out of gossip.
9. If you're unsure whether to take money, don't take it. If you're unsure whether to give money, give it.
10. When talking to strangers, only share 30% of yourself; with acquaintances, 50%; with family, 70%.