Buddha said all sufferings are bitter, only self-salvation matters. So there's no need to pour out your hardships to anyone, because there is no such thing as empathy in this world—only self-knowledge of warmth and coldness. Heal your own wounds yourself, swallow your own bitterness yourself. Only you yourself are your own savior. If you cannot be the sun, be the brightest lamp; if you cannot be a big tree, be the smallest blade of grass. Being obscure is also a form of contribution; being ordinary and mediocre is also a life. Be your own ferryman.