In a certain middle school, the office has three or four age-appropriate unmarried girls.

Around 1999, their ages weren’t very old.
Last night, they discussed the standards for finding a partner.
They summed it up as follows:
No smoking, no drinking, no playing games; can’t be fat, can’t be short; no card-playing, no playing mahjong; no “this one and that one” — no getting close on the side; have good upbringing, know how to be polite, and have gentlemanly manners; at least a basic undergraduate degree; preferably an only child; brothers must be treated with the same consideration; a car and a house in the city paid for in full cash; in the civil service system; and the parents-in-law must have retirement pensions.