Anyone, regardless of their status, wealth, or intelligence, will experience discomfort, avoidance, or emotional fluctuations when real-life events conflict with their internal understanding of "who they are" and "what the world is." This reaction is not directly caused by the event itself, but rather because the event breaks the stable structure they originally used to interpret themselves and the world. This conflict usually arises from three situations: some experiences have not yet truly ended or been properly processed, some identity roles contradict each other within the same person, or a value judgment that a person has long believed in begins to show cracks in the face of real-world outcomes. Therefore, the so-called "pain point" is not essentially a specific event, but the loss of stability in certain areas of a person's self-interpretation system.