Why are some people always so anxious? Because they treat life as statistics, not probability. How much money someone makes at 30, whether someone succeeds or fails in their startup—these are just group samples, not your destiny. People differ in family background, talent, resources, personality, and opportunities. Comparing two completely different individuals is inherently meaningless. Truly valuable comparisons are never about ranking others, but about measuring your own growth. Many people get stuck in competition, constantly defining their worth by others' results; whereas truly capable people focus on creating and amplifying their own strengths. Others are statistics, but you are probability; comparison breeds anxiety, while growth comes from continuously surpassing your past self.