Why do many outstanding women see love as a risk rather than an opportunity? Because in the past, they have seen too many relationships where the essence is not cooperation but control; not mutual growth but resource possession. So what they truly reject is often not love itself, but a life planned by others. When a person desperately pursues freedom, many times it's not because she doesn't need love, but because she first needs to confirm: that her life belongs to herself. What truly restricts a person is not necessarily marriage, nor necessarily love, but the loss of the right to choose.