People don’t need to be overly “considerate.”

As long as an individual gradually forges a steady way of conduct for themselves, and internally truly agrees with it—without any misgivings—then that is their “Dao.”
When an individual is firm enough, the people around them will, instead, gradually adjust themselves and find a way to coexist with them.
If the individual doesn’t deliberately cater to others, others will start to think about how to get closer to them.
Between people, a subtle “balance” often naturally forms.