In the jungle law of social cooperation, there is a fundamental game theory principle:

The intensity of others' attacks on you depends on how clearly they understand your underlying parameters.
Even if you have vulnerabilities like timidity or inferiority, as long as your information layer isn't penetrated, you won't easily become a target of attack.
The core of defense lies in information control.
Suppress the desire to share, establish social boundaries of no questioning and no output.
When it involves privacy or related interests, avoid immediate responses.