An excellent girl is best not to enter into marriage.

While young, find a good man to borrow good genes from, and produce excellent children.
Family members help raise the children, avoiding internal conflicts, so that outstanding children grow up in a happy and peaceful environment.
If you don't do this, with the current high divorce rate, many people, even if they haven't divorced, are living a life worse than death, and most women see their marriages fail, with children growing up in unhappy families.
In the end, they lose their marriage, their careers, their lives, and even their children for a lifetime.
Think about the path you're walking.