What is the greatest sorrow of the poor in China?

Many parents themselves have little ability
Confusedly giving birth to you
Giving you a ugly face, a pig brain
Giving you a back of the head flatter than a rice scoop to sleep on
Casually giving you a broken name
Then telling you to stand out from the crowd
Putting all the chips on your shoulders
Many people endure an unhappy childhood
Painful adolescence and hopeless youth
They often suppress you when you're young, but when you grow up, they want you to be confident
When you're young, they tell you not to compare your eating and dressing with others
When you grow up, you don't compare, yet they say you're hopeless
When studying, they tell you not to fall in love early; after graduation, they tell you to marry early
Childhood demands rigidity and integrity, but adulthood demands flexibility and smoothness
Pressuring marriage and childbirth pushes you into the fire pit
Finally, they wash their hands of you completely
Cannot give any life experience
Standing by, pointing and gesturing