I noticed a pretty obvious change this year on May 20th. The circle of friends has suddenly become much quieter this year. I remember that in the past, every May 20th, the entire circle of friends was like a "love and wealth show" — whoever shared more or gave more expensive gifts. But this year, it's clearly noticeable: many guys are no longer as eager to "hard flirt." The economic downturn is one aspect, but more importantly, more and more people are beginning to realize: the truly long-term attractive people