When discussing whether males or females are the easy mode,

Too many people overlook other attributes behind the gender context.
Wealthy or not wealthy in family background,
China, Europe, America, or Latin America,
Shanghai, Chaozhou, Henan, or Jiangxi,
Handsome, beautiful, or average, or ugly,
Tall, short, or overweight,
These differences are greater than gender as a whole.
Perhaps when arguing, both sides are talking about four completely different groups.