A 34-year-old full-time housewife from Henan eagerly attended a classmate gathering, and upon entering the private room, she found it was filled with 12 male classmates, yet she unguardedly performed on stage, resulting in a video being secretly recorded and spread all over the internet, ruining her reputation.

Online criticism is widespread, with netizens saying: Why didn't she ask about the situation before the gathering? If all are male classmates, a modest and self-respecting woman wouldn't have gone. If she is not discreet, she can’t blame anyone else. She should take full responsibility for her actions.
A person who maintains purity and self-respect wouldn't be manipulated; upon discovering it was all men, she should have found an excuse to leave.
Moreover, she was the class flower back in the day, her husband runs a building materials business, and they have a comfortable family background. She deliberately dressed up to attend, treating herself like a princess, nearly exposing herself in her dress and posing seductively.
Mistaking recklessness for boldness, and misinterpreting men's vulgar teasing as admiration. Little did she know, these middle-aged men only see her as a joke at the drinking table or as a snack to go with alcohol.
Her husband works hard outside, but she willingly lowers herself at the drinking table, not only losing her dignity but also letting down her family. This farce is truly low-level and disgraceful.
Do you think it’s her fault?